Stop apologizing for abortion. Stop apologizing for having sex. People fuck. People fuck all the time. I'm sick of women bearing the scrutiny and the burden, which on the one hand gets romanticized and on the other gets demonized: Welfare queen, single mother, entrapping bitch, and so forth. It's funny how the same people who repeat anecdotes about evil women who entrapped their cousin's husband's doctor's veteranarian's sperm are the same people who tell women they're evil bitches when they complain about something that's a bit more than an inconvenience: injustices like rape, abuse, beatings, discrimination, and hatred get brushed aside with, "But the patriarchy hurts men, too." It doesn't hurt men as often or as hard as it hurts women. Men complain about $200 bucks a month. Women complain about injustice. Can we trade?
None of the anti-abortion groups have been honest about their desire to outlaw birth control, and none of the MRA organizations are honest enough to admit they like the idea of simultaneously forcing women to have their babies while they get to bugger off with a few whining denials. Don't talk to me about irresponsible women. Women have all the responsiblities that men don't, from housework to childcare to simply managing kids and often times, husbands who claim they're 'babysitting' their kids. If you're babysitting, you're a shitty father who thinks his and his wife's kids are solely his wife's problem but the bragging rights are his. If you're babysitting and don't do housework you're a shitty father who's giving his kids sexist ideas. Don't badmouth your wife, your girlfriend or your ex, unless we get to have her side of it, too. PAS is a bullshit excuse for women-bashing. Use it and accept the consequences: you're an asshole and you'll get treated like one. You want traditional women with traditional home, hearth and kitchen values? Traditional women are the most likely to believe in entrapping men because they believe in all that man/woman stereotype crap, but they're also obediant, submissive, and less of a challenge than a feminist, who will call yous ass on your bullshit. They also hate men like you would not believe. You're a dog to her, a meal ticket, and a man with obligations to her. She gives you sex and childcare and lip service, and you better pay up. You want it both ways, though. You want a woman who works, but gives you her paycheck and her future. In return, you give nothing. Pick women who hate men and you have it coming. You think she'll have your baby but there's no atheists in foxholes and there's very few unexpectedly pregnant women who don't even consider or have abortions. If you can't be honest with yourself, least of all the woman you're having sex with, you have no right to complain when you get a dose of your own medicine. If you want women who actually like and have hope for mens' future, try a feminist. Oh, wait.
So, no, I want abortion to be safe, legal and as frequent as women want them to be. No explanations, no equivocating. If you don't want kids, use condoms and accept that accidents happen. Male birth control useage is at 20 %. That's not womens' fault. Don't blame women for the male lack of action. If you don't want kids, get a vasectomy or shut up about women and start lobbying pharmaceutical companies for more male birth control options. Absent any practical proof that you took steps to protect yourself, you're just another MR Asshole who wants it both ways: all the power, none of the obligations.
Oh, yeah, and improbable scenarios about women entrapping you? Yeah, tell a woman that before the date and see how she reacts. Also, shut up about how women lie. If we have to accept your bullshit, you have to accept the actual truth about what we go through at the hands and dicks of unscrupulous or indifferent men. Of course, if you pick one of those starry-eyed women who think they can rescue the bad boy, she might be stupid enough to fuck you or maybe even marry you because she's got 'MRA second wife syndrome written all over her forehead. Try Ann Coulter. Of course, there are women who feel compelled to believe whatever fool thing a man says about his ex because she can compete against a woman who's no longer around to tell her side of the story. I wish I could tell such women exactly what's in store for them and Prince Charming, who'll stop picking up his socks once he has a new
Either way, I don't care how many women have how many abortions. Abortion issues are never about just abortion, they're about power and who gets to control women. Anti-abortion groups have not even been and are not now honest about their policies, the results, and the wide-reaching deadly effects of their actions. Women get to control abortions. Period, end of subject, end of story. Deal with it.